Grannys and Grandkids – Content by Judy

Of the many stages of life there are wins and losses. There are gifts and disasters. There are blessings and tragedies. We can all compare notes of what each of these has been for us, but I will declare loudly my biggest blessing has been being a Granny.

Nothing holds a candle to the moment you hold your first grandchild and realize that new baby is a part of you. In that moment, your life changes forever as you hope to help grow that baby into adulthood. And with each new grandchild that realization continues to grow.

You hold them. You watch that baby grow. You watch them and their parents grow into a family…….. Remembering to be supportive of the parents. Remembering you wanted to raise your kids your way. They do too. So, help the parents by following their schedules and rules.

Build a closeness with those babies because ties between Grandparents and Grandchildren can be so valuable for both groups.

And today’s ways of staying in touch help so much. We have Smart phones, Alexa, text, messenger, Zoom, Facetime, WebEx and so much more. Options seem limitless and sure help Grandparents watch those babies grow even when families live far apart. Plus we can still write a letter. Send a card.

Studies show these relationships have benefits for both. There is less depression in both groups and fewer behavior and emotional problems for the Grandchildren. Even fewer difficulties with peers. Grandparents can help by telling how they handled similar situations when they were growing up. Offer solutions and different ways of looking at things.

And grandkids keep the Grandparents in touch and up to date with what’s happening in today’s world. Expose Grandparents to different ideas and the new meanings of age-old problems.

Grandparents often have the time to spend with the kids. They can often do the things with the grandkids they did not have the time or money to do as they raised their own children.

Grandparents can help teach values. Right from wrong. Reinforce manners and other lessons parents encourage the Grandparents to share. Sometimes Grandparents become the confidant for the kids. The one who they can turn to. The adult who it is safe to share worries or problems with.

And remember it is not all easy!! Like the rest of life there are bumps in the road. Mistakes are made. Things are misunderstood.

Plus keep in mind sometimes a child’s grandparent might really be Great Aunt or Uncle. Or they might not even be related at all. It could a neighbor, a family friend, the babysitter, or someone else who is close to the family. So whoever you are, remember you are important and can truly make a difference in that child’s life. And your life will be much richer for it too.

So, help the parents. Offer date nights.  Babysit. Have a sleepover.

Get out there and take a kid to a museum, a park, for a walk, play a game and you will both have a great, meaningful time.

At this time, there is no time table for re-opening the Senior Center.

Updates on our status will be posted on the East Lyme Town Hall website – www.eltownhall.com, and the East Lyme Senior Center page on the SECT regional senior center website –  www.seniorcenterct.org, the Senior Center Facebook page and on the Senior Center answering machine.

SENIOR CENTER PROGRAMING MOVING ON-LINE

For the foreseeable future, it seems likely that classes at the Senior Center will be held on-line. To prepare for this, we need to help you use Zoom – a videoconferencing software. There is no charge to use the software but you will need to be sure you have the correct equipment in order to log on. We need to help you learn how to use this application. More to follow.
To use Zoom on a laptop or computer you will need:
• A computer or laptop which has speakers, a microphone and a video camera. You can also join a Zoom meeting without a camera but we don’t recommend it. If your laptop does not have a video camera, you can buy these inexpensively. If your computer doesn’t have speakers or a microphone, you might try hands-free headphones which have an integrated microphone. HOWEVER, most devices today have these items already installed.
• A reliable internet connection and preferably a quiet room.
You can also access Zoom from your mobile phone or tablet. Same stipulations as above. Using Zoom on your phone or tablet is not quite as easy but it can still be done.
To use Zoom, the Groton Public Library put together 3 tutorials which are short and clear cut.
Thank you Jessica Franco.
Zoom Basics Part 1- What is Zoom?
Zoom Basics Part 2- How to join a meeting
Zoom Basics Part 3- Navigating a Zoom Meeting & Etiquette
Go to your search bar in your internet browser and type in YouTube. You will then be brought to the YouTube site. In their search bar, type in Groton Public
Library Zoom tutorials. You will find the above 3.
Another site is www.geeksontour.com.
On their home page, look to the lower left. You will see All tutorial videos (short). Click on this and then look for 614.OT- Zoom How to Join a meeting.

The Preston Senior Affairs Office has taken on a slightly different way of conducting business.

Due to the COVID-19 coronavirus, face-to-face interaction is temporarily on hold until such time as the COVID-19 coronavirus pandemic has been eliminated. I will continue to accept telephone messages and adjust regular support in completing re-determination forms, SNAP applications, etc. to requesting that you use the US Postal service or the Blue Drop Box located in the front of the Preston Town Hall to deliver your documents to me. Safety is a priority!

The Blood Pressure Screening conducted monthly at Lincoln Park Housing has been cancelled until further notice.

MEDICARE DURING COVID-19- Telehealth Services

Medicare has temporarily expanded its coverage of telehealth services to respond to the current Public Health Emergency. These services expand the current telehealth covered services, to help you have access from more places (including your home), with a wider range of communication tools (including smartphones), to interact with a range of providers (such as doctors, nurse practitioners, clinical psychologists, licensed clinical social workers, physical therapists, occupational therapists, and speech language pathologists). During this time, you will be able to receive a specific set of services through telehealth including evaluation and management visits (common office visits), mental health counseling and preventive health screenings without a copayment if you have Original Medicare. This will help ensure you are able to visit with your doctor from your home, without having to go to a doctor’s office or hospital, which puts you and others at risk of exposure to COVID-19.
You may be able to communicate with your doctors or certain other practitioners without necessarily going to the doctor’s office in person for a full visit. Medicare pays for “virtual check-ins”—brief, virtual services with your physician or certain practitioners where the communication isn’t related to a medical visit within the previous 7 days and doesn’t lead to a medical visit within the next 24 hours (or soonest appointment available).
• You need to consent verbally to using virtual check-ins and your doctor must document that consent in your medical record before you use this service. You pay your usual Medicare coinsurance and deductible for these services. Medicare also pays for you to communicate with your doctors using online patient portals without going to the doctor’s office. Like the virtual check-ins, you must initiate these individual communications.

TAX RELIEF FOR ELDERLY AND TOTALLY DISABLED RENTERS

The Renter Rebate Program through the State of CT provides a rebate to renters who are elderly or disabled. The Senior Center is currently unable to take appointments in the office. All applicants who previously applied have been contacted with instructions about how to apply this year. Any new applicants can contact the Senior Center office with questions. The application period runs until October 1st. Please be sure to have your
SSA1099 for 2019 or its equivalent from Social Security as it is required in order to process an application.
To be eligible:
1. An applicant or the spouse must be 65 or older; or be 100% disabled (per Social Security);
or be 50 and a surviving spouse.
2. Must have lived in Connecticut for 1 year.
3. Total 2019 income which includes Social Security must not exceed:
Married $45,100
Single $37,000
If you collect Social Security, you must provide your SSA1099 for 2019.
4. Thirty-five percent of the applicant’s annual rent must exceed 5% of the applicant’s income.
Proof of income received and rent and utility payments made in calendar year 2019 must be provided.

AARP Driver Saftey- Online

AARP On-Line Smart Driver Classes are available. If you need to renew your car insurance discount due to course cancellations, you can take the AARP Smart Driver online course. AARP is offering a special 25% off discount for those who may have to take it online now. This offer is to keep the price close to the classroom course price.

Promo code for 25% discount: DRIVINGSKILLS Good through: July 31, 2020″
Website: www.aarpdriversafety.org

FREE ZOOM POETRY CLASS

A Free Zoom Poetry Class will run for June 9th – July 7th on Tuesdays at 10am. Those interested are asked to commit to all 5 weeks, if possible, as it will not be a drop in class. Instructor, Dr. Roger Singer, presently Old Lyme’s Poet Laureate and the president of the Shoreline Poetry Chapter, in association with the Connecticut Poetry Society has been published in numerous magazines, books and on the internet, and was a Pushcart Prize nominee in 2017. Singer says “I believe everyone has a message within, filled with numerous threads of material from their past, shaping who they are in the present.”
” In describing the class he says “I have compiled various instructional methods to guide students onto a path to express themselves. To register and get the Zoom code for this class please contact the Lymes’ Senior Center at seniorcenter@oldlyme-ct.gov

PRACTICE YOUR ZOOM SKILLS WITHOUT PRESSURE

If you want to practice your Zoom skills without the pressure of a “class”, the Senior Center staff will be hosting a Talk to Us Tuesday starting on June 16th at 2pm. If you are interested in joining this coffee clutch, contact the office. We will be able to provide you with some instructions and then send you an invite.